Choosing...

Making choices is always there, right in front of our faces, everyday, every minute of each day is a battle of ones inner choices for this that and the other thing...Making the best and or more properly put the best social norm of a choice, one then has to concentrate every time then? When can one know for sure that a choice is one for the best? Or does one need to decide what best is first? How does one come into the choices of what is best or not? Is it a natural thing, does someone teach us from an early age how to make the right or best choices? Or not? I confused as the reader can well figure out for him\herself, but that's ok, being confused about something can be best soemtimes as well... Huh??

Being confused about something I'd guess would make a person think about what might or moght not be best for him or herself at that precise moment... I guess a state of confusion once in a while can and just might bring about what is best int he long run? Maybe, maybe not...

Being at work and the time being 3am and having many thoughts speeding thru my head, not actually all that confused about anything to be honest... I'd like to think that I maybe understand something now after all... or not... hmmm... back to work da

Understanding...

Having it, or not, wanting it, or not, searching for it, or not, getting it, or not, accepting it, or not, listening to it, or not, Feeling it, or not.... Understanding... How does one understand? Can one really understand another? Can one have complete understanding of something or someone? Maybe yes, maybe no... But one thing is for sure one can think one has understanding, but when one really understands and it is a true thing, one realizes real fast that the only thing one can really understand in this life is oneself and how you work... If I can understand myself first and foremost, then and only then can I have the possibility to have a chance in hell in understanding someone else or in the extreme cases understand that persons meanings and or holding to something or someone...

What happens to someone when they meet a lack of understanding? How does one make others understand or even care to understand? Can one make another understand? Is understanding an art? Being able to understand is or can it be learned? Hmmm... many questions here... any answers??

Fall Vacation....

Each and every year it's this time to celebrate a little time called fall vacation... A week free from school for my kids, the bballers and for those of us 'normal' working folks who choose or have the time free and every time it works out, it's always nice. I have always enjoyed the fall days, the changing colors of the trees, the different colors of the times of day, here in the north we have some pretty good sunrises during the fall and winter months, the cool crisp air and the few lucky days with an indian summer about it...

Played golf with my man Rikard the other day, we just got in the front nine at Oppegaard and it was fun, well, getting beat 3 and 2 is never fun but we did have a good walk and talk... Rikard played 3 under and I played well, do we have to talk about it?? Hehe maybe 4 over or something... The putting and short game was awful, but from tee to green it was ok... Fun it was and thanks my man for getting me out there... it took a few, or should I say a few dozen phone calls, but thanks for keeping up the telephoner's dudester...

Giving my bballers the week off in a sense, we have open gyms during all practice times this week and for those players who really wanted to get in some individual work at the same time being able to get a good run in... stay in shape and all the good stuff... Third season with my oldest team, they are getting to be 17 and 18 years old now... many 17 year olds and some 16'ers... will be a good season for all of them, a great learning experience and one that will be a spring board until they turn 21. My youngest team is a group I have had my eyes on the last two seasons and it's more than my pleasure to take them under my wing from the coach they had, a good guy who has done his absolute best... Looking forward to seeing what happens with the core group of this team during this season and the ones to follow....

Ya ya ya.. gotta run, but this is a thought for all, and this time I mean it Peace - Love - Goodness to the world  will always rule in the end, always has been always will be...